Wednesday, December 31, 2008
Abode to 2008
2008. All in all, it's been a good year.
Gabe has learned to read and is beginning to really enjoy it. He reads books almost as much as he collects books, which reminds me of his mother. Gabe's 7th birthday party was held at the Young Chef's Academy, where he and several friends cultivated the culinary arts. And, soccer was again a major part of our fall. He seems to be well-rounded. Still, what encourages me most is witnessing the unfolding of this compassionate, funny, and resilient young boy who calls me mom.
Relationships have been a highlight this year. Attending my 20 year reunion at Occidental College provided the opportunity to rekindle longstanding friendships, and also enabled me to transform some college acquaintances into new midlife friends. I also re-entered the dating world in 2008, realizing that "it was time". The timing was nudged by a chance meeting in an airport that led to a whirlwind long-distance Verizon-supported romance. After being reminded of a part of me that I'd shut down for some years, I briefly entertained just "dating" and staying away from relationships only to realize that simply wasn't me. For the past several months, I've enjoyed cultivating a solid foundation for a relationship with a lovely man who helps me to better know myself even as I get to know him. He and I share an appreciation for meaningful conversation, a propensity for the ironic, a deep love for our respective children, and an ability to enjoy life at its simplest. I celebrate all that I am learning with him, including the opportunity and discipline to practice the present and let the future unfold on its own.
I know 2008 was filled with challenge in our world, including the economic downturn. And my life has it's share of woes to be sure. Still, this context has reminded me of the value of the simple joys in my life...meaningful work, a warm home, good friends, a wonderful son, and good health.
2008 has not only been good but has has taught me what "life is good" really means.
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